Take Your Seat

Trusting Your Inner Knowing in Work and Life

I’m sensitive to people’s wisdom. When someone speaks from their inner knowing and they are aligned with what they’re saying, their words ring differently, like a clear bell. I feel it in my body. I love it. From many years of experience, I’ve learned to trust someone when they speak from that place. So, you … Read more

Create Low-Drama, Fulfilling Collaboration

Satisfying, fulfilling, low-drama collaboration – it’s the dream, right? It amplifies our efficacy and impact, opens more options and opportunities, and can be so much fun. But how do you cultivate and curate the best collaborative relationships? How do you avoid disconnect, conflict, painful miscommunications, and failed projects? First of all, rough and painful collaborations … Read more

Organizational Dysfunction Part 2: Cope, Change, or Quit?

Org Dysfunction - Cope, Change, or Quit?

In the first article, Organizational Dysfunction Part 1: Claim your Power, we explored the #1 most powerful thing you can do in the face of toxic dysfunction – change your internal relationship to the situation. Sometimes, that’s all you need to do to create significant change. When that process doesn’t yield the change you need, … Read more

Organizational Dysfunction Part 1: Claim Your Power

Org Dysfunction

Why do people put up with toxic organizational dysfunction? It’s the question I started asking early in my career, and it’s a question I still explore with my clients today. I don’t mean run-of-the-mill challenges, miscommunications, etc. I mean chronic, systemic, damaging dysfunction. You know, the hair-pulling, tear-evoking kind where you are suppressing an urge … Read more

Grounded Confidence, Part 2: Transcending Arrogance & Self-Dismissal

Transcending Arrogance & Self-Dismissal

One of the biggest obstacles to maintaining grounded confidence is the war between opposites: arrogance and humility. We see this war everywhere, both internally and externally in our society. We have pressures to be humble which can lead to self-dismissal, not speaking up when needed, and not honoring our gifts and skills. We have different … Read more